Although we share the same basic human needs, we differ in the amount of each need we require.   For example, while some people have a high need for social connections, (love & belonging), others are more driven by the need to achieve (power), the need to play (fun), the need for independence (freedom), or the need to be healthy and/or financially secure (survival).     Arlin “Pete” Peterson, a senior faculty member with The William Glasser Institute,  developed an activity to help people understand their own needs profile, and determine to what degree they were successful at satisfying their needs.  It is called Pete’s Pathogram.  To complete the pathogram:

1. In the “WANT” column for each need, place an “W” in the box corresponding to the strength you believe you hold for that need in relation to the other needs.  For example, you may have an “X” in the 9 box for Love and Belonging, in the “7” box for Power, in the 5 box for Freedom, and in the 6 box for Fun.  That, then, would be your needs profile.      

2. In the “HAVE” column for each need, place an “H” to represent

how much of that need you think you are currently getting in your

life.

3.    In the “ENERGY” column, place an “E” to

represent the amount of time and energy you are

currently expending to satisfy that need.

4.    What have you learned about  your needs and the

 behaviors you are using to meet your needs?  You might wish to discuss this with a partner.

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